I started this blog a while ago as a fitness and health blog, but as you probably know that isn’t what I’ve been posting about for a while now. I’m done trying to loose weight, look better, and dress, for other people.
It’s ok to want to loose weight, its ok to want to dress well, its ok to put on make up to feel beautiful. But you have to do it for yourself and not to impress other people. You will never be happy if you’re doing it for anyone other then yourself. Because society has impossible standards and nobody can tell you what or what not to do with your body.
I want to be more toned, because I’d like to be able to lift more then 50lbs at work.
I want to be more tan, so that i don’t burn when I walk outside.
I want my hair to be longer, So that it wont poke me in the eyes every time it curls when it’s wet.
I want to wear make up, because I want to be able to express myself, and use my body as a walking canvas.
I want to shave my legs, because I HATE pulling on skinny jeans with hairy legs
I don’t have my ears pierced, because needles make me squimish and that’s ok.
I don’t have a thigh gap, because I don’t have the right bone structure or body type and that’s ok.
I don’t wear the latest fashions, because they’re uncomfortable and the jeans I’ve been wearing for a few year are perfectly broken in and comfortable, and that’s ok.
None of these things will make you happy if you do them for someone else. It is ok to be you and still be happy.
It’s mad depressing when u eat the last piece of candy but you didn’t look at the bag and realize it was the last one so you could truly appreciate it for what it was worth
This speaks to me on a deep emotional level.
(via bholibhaali)
